Thoughtful Thursday
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by Lynda Spirit Baptiste
Hello Lovationship Readers,
Let me ask you a question? If you were aware that you could have the greatest Lovationship ever with yourself and the partner of your dreams, what would it look like? If you knew what a relationship between you and a partner looked like you could begin to expect it. Did you know that we create our life by our thoughts, our beliefs and expectations? It definitely is possible for you to have your dream life and Lovationship partner. I am sure you know someone who does and that means you can too! If you have a clear list of what that would look like for you and you understood what it may require to become your own “thought police” you could design and sculpt every good and great loving thing and person to happen in your life. If your love for yourself is not first and foremost the love you want to attract in your life will not happen either. (K) Begin with a list of your qualities; the positive ones and the ones that need to be polished (love all of you). (K) Make a list of all the qualities you want in your Lovationship partner; the positive ones and the ones he or she may need to polish. (K) Stay tuned to this article series to do continue to learn the keys to creating the love life and Lovationship Partner your heart desires and deserves.
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by Lynda Spirit Baptiste
Once again, I conclude that our Lovationship Gurus are giving us authentic answers that touch our hearts and open our minds. I believe their highly perceptive answers will lead us to greater wisdom in creating our own Lovationship success.
They provide answers to questions that we might want to want to ask our own partners or partners to be. I myself remember and have come to practice some very sage advice someone once gave me. They told me, it is the questions you ask that matter the most. What they meant was that you have to ask the right questions to get the right answers. I find this week’s answers a whole lot more interesting then what I had originally thought to be interesting questions.
I always make sure my Lovationship Gurus feel comfortable. I let them know they can speak freely and from their heart because they are protected by anonymity. I feel positively certain this is the kind of connection we have. After all, these questions are too tough to have canned responses; would you agree?
I notice our Lovationship Gurus always take a minute and think before they respond. More times than not they repeat my question first, and you can genuinely tell they have gone to the deep recesses of their heart before they respond. So, I want to take a moment here to “Thank All of Our Lovationship Gurus” over the past weeks for their thought provoking and profound contributions. Thank you for helping us move towards creating a greater understanding on the nature of how to improve, enhance and enlighten our minds at the heart level to have the best Lovationship we deserve for ourselves and our partners. Please check our Thoughtful Thursday archives to comment and acknowledge all of our Lovationship Guru’s contributions. Now, let’s jump right into this week’s juicy article, shall we?
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by Lynda Spirit Baptiste
I believe that our LOVATIONSHIP GURU’S continue to prove and provide guidance as to how to build a loving compassionate lifelong partnership filled with joy, happiness and how to get though anything that differs from peace and bliss. So on the off chance that this is what you would like to experience in your life I invite you to stay tuned into our series and the Learning Keys we offer to facilitate your greatest Lovationship of a lifetime.
Additionally I invite you to submit any questions you would like to have input on by using the comments box below.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
1) How do you stand by your woman?
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“Looking good on the outside is not going to change your inside.” - Iyanla Vanzant
Think about this… many people spend more time contemplating what to wear each day than they do on reflecting how to maintain or improve their love lives. We match shoes with hats, ties with shirts, and scarves with purses with the precision of a surgeon at an operating table. Then we stare at our reflection in the mirror until we’re satisfied with the image staring back at us. And if we’re not satisfied, we change our clothes!
More often than not, we don’t do the same with love. Sure we think about our significant other, or the partner we would like to have, but in a more random way than we think about what dress would be perfect to wear to a gala. For the gala, we design our appearance long before we make an entrance. With love, we condition happiness on being accepted just as we are. Even when we see the colors clashing, we are reluctant to take time to change.
If you want love; lasting love, rapturous love, the kind that’s written all over your face and unmistakable… Design Your Love. Match your desire for a positive harmonious relationship with the partner of your dreams to a willingness to be habitual about the choices that lead to that outcome. Start by throwing away all the clichés in your closet. You don’t look good in them no matter what you believe or whoever tells you that you do. Stop wearing “Take me as I am.” Stop wearing, “I have a lot to offer.” Don’t rely anymore on “Everybody wants some of this!” or “You don’t treat me right.” Those are old clothes. They’re out of style.- Details
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By Lynda Spirit Baptiste
Well I am not sure what you are thinking, but I think our Lovationship Gurus are leading us to some very valuable information, especially for those of us looking to be in or remain in lifelong partnerships. You know the kind I mean; the ones when you hear about the couple celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. All of a sudden, the shock sets in, your jaw drops and you gasp a deep, “WOW”. You are amazed and your mind wonders a bit. Next you hear yourself say, “I wonder how they did that?”