by Lynda Spirit Baptiste
Hello Lovationship Readers,
Let me ask you a question? If you were aware that you could have the greatest Lovationship ever with yourself and the partner of your dreams, what would it look like? If you knew what a relationship between you and a partner looked like you could begin to expect it. Did you know that we create our life by our thoughts, our beliefs and expectations? It definitely is possible for you to have your dream life and Lovationship partner. I am sure you know someone who does and that means you can too! If you have a clear list of what that would look like for you and you understood what it may require to become your own “thought police” you could design and sculpt every good and great loving thing and person to happen in your life. If your love for yourself is not first and foremost the love you want to attract in your life will not happen either. (K) Begin with a list of your qualities; the positive ones and the ones that need to be polished (love all of you). (K) Make a list of all the qualities you want in your Lovationship partner; the positive ones and the ones he or she may need to polish. (K) Stay tuned to this article series to do continue to learn the keys to creating the love life and Lovationship Partner your heart desires and deserves.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Have you been in or are you in a serious monogamous relationship?
Monogamous? What is the definition of the word; I haven’t heard it in a minute.
(M) Monogamous means…
Yes! I have been in 3 monogamous relationships.
In any of your monogamous relationships, have you ever sexually cheated on your partner?
NO!
Why do you think cheating never happened in any of your relationships?
The type of person I grew up to be. The type of person my Mom encouraged me to be.
Also my father, my biological father, he is not in my life anymore. He used to beat up on my Mom and so that kinda went downhill. I’m not sure if that has a lot to do with this part of me; not cheating. It kinda goes into a little bit of background with that.
Do you think that not cheating matters in a relationship?
It definitely does! Yep. It does because it can break relationships. And, you know, if there is a female that is willing to stay after that or be a really forgiving female, it’s still going to make it a little bit tougher. And, it’s going to change a lot of different things, connections that two people used to have.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Have you been in or are you currently in a serious monogamous relationship?
Yes! I am currently in a monogamous relationship.
Have you ever sexually cheated on your partner?
Are you speaking of the current one or whenever I was in one? You know what, I am going to say YES! Because you know what I have come to learn, as of recently? Cheating is not only sexual. I am going to say No to the sexuality. But I have recently come to learn that cheating is not just sexual.
What do you believe caused that to happen for you?
For me? Oh that’s interfering!
For me, I’m going to say an Alter Ego
Does it matter if you cheat?
That’s a good question. For myself or for my spouse? Ummm. That’s a good question. Does it matter if I cheat? YES, it does matter. It matters because you end up making someone else feel inadequate all due to the process of yourself feeling inadequate.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Have you been in or are you currently in a serious monogamous relationship?
Yes I Am!
Have you ever sexually cheated on your partner?
Nope!
Well my next question does not apply to you so our interview is now over.
All right! Well that was easy!
I pray that I can get more men like you alive and living in this world to let women know… NO. Not all men cheat!
A lot of women consider us as dogs. But you have a lot of women that need to stop being the fire hydrant.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Have you been in or are you currently in a serious monogamous relationship?
No, but I wish I was.
Yes in the past, I have.
Have you ever sexually cheated on your partner?
No.
Do you think it matters that you didn’t cheat?
Of course, it Matters. It is just not a good thing to do! My thing is, you wouldn’t want that done to you. You know when somebody tells you one thing and then they go do another. It’s supposed to be a degree of trust and understanding there.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Have you been in or are you currently in a serious monogamous relationship?
YES!
Have you ever sexually cheated on your partner?
To give you an honest answer, Yes, I have.
What do you believe caused that to happen?
Because it happened when I first got married, I wasn’t totally out of a previous relationship. So, I guess it was just confusion of what I really wanted. Until I kind of sat down and looked at it and said, you know, trying to live a double life wasn’t worth it. So, I chose the one that I got married to.
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Lynda totally loves and completely enjoys helping YOU discover YOUR Life Purpose and and showing you how to Connect It to Your Career Passion and The Lovationship of Your Dreams. She is an Empowering, Experiential Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner and an Inspiring Certified-Master Life Purpose Coach.
You may reach out to her at Design Your Success 1 888 564-4114