byLynda Spirit Baptiste
(K) WOMEN, LADIES, GIRLS, MOMS, DAUGHTERS, GRANDMOM’S; HOW MUCH DO YOU LOVE YOU? Listen to our Lovationship Guru’s tell us how important you loving you is for them. Then kindly leave us your feedback in the comment box below. If you want another lens on the topic of how important it is to love you including my learning keys, check out my article The Greatest Love of All Is To Be True To You. You will find more reasons to feel empowered to love you more.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Is it important to you for your woman to love herself?
YES! Well…it’s the thing about me…that I know. In order for you to love me, I have to love myself First. So…it’s the same for her…in order for me to love her, she has to know how to love herself First!
On a scale of 1-10, how important is it? (10 being the highest)
10! It’s Very Important
How do you know she loves herself? How can you recognize it?
By the way that she pampers herself and takes care of herself without me being around. Like manicures, pedicures, treating herself. Like myself for example, I don’t need you to take me out to dinner. I’ll take myself out to dinner. In order to show me that you love you is the way that you take care of yourself, the way that you do things for yourself.
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LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Is it important to you for your woman to love herself?
ABSOLUTLY! I Think it is key for her to love herself because if she doesn’t love herself than how is she going to have the ability to love me?
On a scale of 1-10, how important is it? (10 being the highest)
I would definitely say it would be a 10!
How do you know she loves herself? How can you recognize it?
I know she loves herself by the things that she does that are more or less for herself but at the same time she knows that in the long run it’s going to affect the both of us. How she keeps her hair, how she keeps her personality, how she interacts with her family as well as mine, you know, those types of things.
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LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Is it important to you for your woman to love herself?
I think it is very important that my wife love herself. And also to have love for the Lord, Jesus Christ. And that’s why I think it’s so important because, if she loves herself, that love can expand. So she can be able to give that same equal amount of love to the people and persons around her in her life.
On a scale of 1-10, how important is it? (10 being the highest)
I would say that it would be near the top, around 8 or a 9.
How do you know she loves herself? How can you recognize it?
I would say the way that she carries herself. I think the body language says a lot more than the words you speak. How she treats others around her as well as she treats herself.
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LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Is it important to you for your woman to love herself?
Ohm!!! The term… important? I would probably say It Is a Definite Must that you Love yourself. Spiritually, mentally, physically…you have to actually love yourself, in order to actually understand yourself. And from within that point of understanding yourself, you would not mess around with anything else. Then through that understanding of yourself, you will receive love from another.
On a scale of 1-10, how important is it? (10 being the highest)
It’s a 10.
How do you know she loves herself? How can you recognize it?
There are certain things that people do to show that they actually love themselves. And for everybody it may or may not be a ten. And they will do things for themselves. Like self-improvement, the will treat themselves, they will look at themselves and look to improve themselves. I mean your existence is the greatest gift, a miracle from God. And through that you will find who has taken to that and more or less worships it. I mean because it is a miracle to actually be in existence. And in the people who actually recognize this or who are enlightened by it, you will actually see it. It radiates through them. They won’t put toxic things into their body, they won’t drink themselves crazy. They will put their best foot forward every day, in regards to themselves.
(ME) I missed a word you said, something about a miracle.
(LG) Existence… It is a miracle to be in existence. Existence, in my opinion is the ONE Greatest miracle. I mean we really should not be here but we are. And, you know that is the BIGGEST Miracle of all. But I mean to each individual person, some people see it, some don’t. And those who recognize mortality and the gift that they have, knowing that it will expire; they are going to put forth an effort to enjoy themselves just as much as anything else. I mean you have to be able to enjoy yourself to appreciate what you are. And in that you kind of find what you have to bring to a relationship.
LOVATIONSHIP GURU
Is it important to you for your woman to love herself?
Yes! First and foremost she has to love herself. That is part of being happy. That means she is happy before I even meet her. Then I don’t have to worry about self-esteem issues with her. That’s how it always is when guys meet women. Self-esteem…that would allude to a sense of self-esteem, if she is happy. So yes it would be important.
On a scale of 1-10, how important is it? (10 being the highest)
10! If they are happy, you want to be around them. You don’t even know why you want to be around them. You are just attracted because they are happy.
How do you know she loves herself? How can you recognize it?
It all depends on ah… well it is kind of hard to tell unless you really talk to them if they love themselves totally.
The less makeup she has on, the more genuine the hair as opposed to fake. You know I’m looking at the hair, the make up, the clothes; I’m looking at the demeanor. You can tell how she loves herself. The smile is the first thing I notice. It’s usually women who don’t wear a lot of make-up, that I kind of look at them as, they are happier with themselves. If they have natural hair, I know they are really happy with themselves. So I am talking about self…as far as physical appearance and you know you have to find out their mental attitude when you talk to them a little more. But you can tell they are happy with themselves by the way they walk, their demeanor their posture, everything. It’s basically, the way they carry themselves, by how they prepared for the day before they even step out into the world. I notice stuff like that; it only takes a few seconds. But it is kind of hard to describe it. It takes longer to describe it.
Lynda totally loves and completely enjoys helping YOU discover YOUR Life Purpose and showing you how to connect it to Your Career Passion and The Lovationship of Your Dreams. She is an Empowering, Experiential Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner and an Inspiring Certified-Master Life Purpose Coach.
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